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Kommunikation und Respekt: Worauf es in einer Partnerschaft ankommt

Von 1000 Ehen werden 277 geschieden: Wie kann man eine Trennung verhindern? Oberpfalz-Medien hat bei einer Nabburger Paarberaterin nachgefragt, worauf es in einer Beziehung ankommt und worüber viele Paare stolpern.

Kommunikation ist wichtig, um eine gesunde und langanhaltende Beziehung zu führen. Symbolbild: Benjamin Nolte/dpa-tmn
Kommunikation ist wichtig, um eine gesunde und langanhaltende Beziehung zu führen.

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