Doppeltes Happy End nach über 50 Jahren: Nach dem Vater findet Rolf Graßler noch eine Schwester

Als Rolf Graßler nach langer Suche seinen leiblichen Vater kennenlernen darf, freut er sich riesig. Doch das Leben hält eine weitere Überraschung für ihn parat: eine Schwester, von der er nichts ahnte, die er aber aus der Schule kennt.

von Michaela Lowak

Zwei, die sich gut verstehen: Rolf Graßler und Cordula Haberberger sind Geschwister. Doch das wissen sie erst seit ein paar Monaten.

Bild: Rita Graßler/exb

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