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Im März starb meine Mutter nach einem schweren Schlaganfall und anschließend festgestelltem Hirntot im selben Krankenhaus. Ich weiß das es sehr schwer ist zu akzeptieren das ein Mensch tot ist, wenn er noch warm ist und atmet. Aber sie hatte auch eine Patientenverfügung, so dass diese Entscheidung nicht an uns hing. Warum das anscheinend hier nicht der Fall ist versehe ich nicht. Die Frau hat doch einen Gehirntumor. Ich wünsche dem Ehemann die Kraft und Einsicht seine geliebte Frau gehen zu lassen.
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