07.09.2021 - 18:20 Uhr
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Verunsicherte Eltern: Wie viel Sorge ist gut fürs Kind?

Vorsicht ist besser als Nachsicht - diese Redewendung beherzigen auch viele Eltern, wenn es um die Gesundheit ihrer Kinder geht. Manchmal nehmen die Sorgen aber überhand.

Kinder bereiten viel Freude – aber manchmal eben auch Sorge. Symbolbild: Christin Klose/dpa
Kinder bereiten viel Freude – aber manchmal eben auch Sorge.

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