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Wenn Fremde eine Familie werden

30 Gastfamilien geben in der Oberpfalz psychisch kranken Menschen ein Zuhause. Bei Christine Bach wohnt Martin, mit dem sie es nicht immer leicht hat. Er hat ihr aber auch über einen schweren Schicksalsschlag hinweggeholfen.

Christine Bach und ihr Gastbewohner (rechts), der sein Gesicht nicht in der Zeitung sehen will, verbringen viel Zeit im Garten. Diplom-Sozialpädagoge Richard Schießl (links) besucht die Familie regelmäßig. Bild: gib
Christine Bach und ihr Gastbewohner (rechts), der sein Gesicht nicht in der Zeitung sehen will, verbringen viel Zeit im Garten. Diplom-Sozialpädagoge Richard Schießl (links) besucht die Familie regelmäßig.

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