Weiden in der Oberpfalz
18.12.2018 - 15:01 Uhr
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Eltern drogenkonsumierender Kinder: Gemeinsam gegen den Kummer

Wird über Drogen gesprochen, geht es meist um Kriminalität. An die Menschen selbst denkt selten jemand. Noch häufiger wird aber vergessen: Hinter jedem Konsumenten stehen Angehörige, die oft viel durchmachen müssen. Drei Mütter erzählen.

Der Zusammenhalt in der Selbsthilfegruppe tut den Eltern gut. Bei gemeinsamen Unternehmungen schöpfen sie neue Kraft für ihren Alltag. (Symbolbild) Bild: Gabi Schönberger
Der Zusammenhalt in der Selbsthilfegruppe tut den Eltern gut. Bei gemeinsamen Unternehmungen schöpfen sie neue Kraft für ihren Alltag. (Symbolbild)

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Kinder- und Jugendpsychotherapeut und Drogenberater Gerhard Krones. Bild: Gabi Schönberger
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