Weiden in der Oberpfalz
25.02.2020 - 17:42 Uhr
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Mutter eines Sternenkinds: "Hätte mir gewünscht, einmal ihre Stimme zu hören"

Alina Bärs Tochter ist ein Sternenkind, sie starb drei Wochen nach der Geburt. Die Weidenerin kämpft seitdem mit psychischen Problemen. Ein Jahr nach dem Tod ihrer Letizia erzählt sie ihre Geschichte. Sie will anderen Betroffenen helfen.

Alina Bär zeigt Erinnerungsstücke an ihre verstorbene Tochter. Bild: Gabi Schönberger
Alina Bär zeigt Erinnerungsstücke an ihre verstorbene Tochter.

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