Freunde in Uniform: Wie Oberpfälzer Reservisten die Beziehungen zu Soldaten in Ungarn pflegen

Sie wollen die Erinnerung an den Weltkrieg wachhalten: Mehrmals im Jahr sind die Reservisten Wolfgang Richthammer und Edmund Beiderbeck in Ungarn. Der Umgang mit dem Militär ist dort ein völlig anderer. Nicht immer ist man einer Meinung.

von Tobias Gräf

Allein am Soldatenfriedhof Székesfehérvár (Stuhlweißenburg) in Ungarn liegen die Überreste von rund 2500 deutschen Soldaten. Das Kriegsgräberabkommen zwischen Deutschland und Ungarn gibt es nun seit 30 Jahren.

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