Neustadt an der Waldnaab
04.03.2025 - 07:52 Uhr
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Bürokratie, Angst und Alltag: Blick ins Leben einer Pflegefamilie im Landkreis Neustadt

Erkrankung, Überforderung, Misshandlung: Die Gründe, warum Kinder ihre leiblichen Eltern verlassen müssen, sind vielfältig. Pflegefamilien geben ihnen eine Perspektive, doch es mangelt an ihnen. Ein Blick in ihren Alltag.

Im Landkreis Neustadt/WN gibt es aktuell 73 Pflegefamilien, in denen insgesamt 90 Kinder untergebracht sind. Symbolbild: Uwe Anspach/dpa
Im Landkreis Neustadt/WN gibt es aktuell 73 Pflegefamilien, in denen insgesamt 90 Kinder untergebracht sind.

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