Dementer Coronakranker allein zu Haus: Stundenlanges Warten auf Hilfe

"Um Gottes Willen, was tue ich denn, was tue ich denn?" Diese Frage stellt sich Margit Pfleger aus Pressath aus Sorge um ihre an Corona erkrankten Eltern immer wieder. Aber Hilfe, vor allem für den dementen Vater, bleibt lange Zeit aus.

von Anita Reichenberger

Wenn zur Demenz eines alten Menschen auch noch Corona hinzukommt und zudem die Bezugsperson erkrankt, wird für die Angehörigen die Lage kritisch. Diese „Ausnahmesituation“ musste Margit Pfleger aus Pressath durchleben – eine leidvolle Erfahrung.

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