Wenn Kinder und Jugendliche trauern: Alle Emotionen sind erlaubt

"Die Oma ist verreist" - ein denkbar schlechter Erklärungsversuch, um einem Kind beizubringen, dass die Großmutter verstorben ist. In Schwandorf gibt es einen "Letzte-Hilfe-Kurs" speziell für Schüler und Teenager mit klaren Empfehlungen.

von Uli Piehler

Menschen beim Sterben begleiten - das ist eine sehr emotionale und intensive Erfahrung, nicht nur für Erwachsene. Ein besonderes Augenmerk legt der Hospizverein Schwandorf jetzt auf Kinder.

Bild: Felix Kästle/dpa

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