„Sie oder er oder…?“: Über das kleine "d" und die Arbeitswelt

Es geht um Respekt. Um Respekt. Und nochmal Respekt. Viel mehr große Ansprüche an den perfekten Arbeitsplatz hat Jay Pendragon nicht. Die 30-Jährige ist das kleine „d“, das heute in keiner Stellenanzeige fehlen darf: m/w/d. D wie divers.

von Gabi Eichl

Jay Pendragon zu Hause in Klardorf (Kreis Schwandorf): Die 30-jährige "Texter*in" hat ihren Zweitwohnsitz in der Heimat, in der sie engen Kontakt zur Familie hält.

Bild: Eichl

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