Tirschenreuth
18.06.2024 - 17:03 Uhr
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Wenn Kinder unter Trennungen leiden: Erziehungsberatung Tirschenreuth bietet Beistand

Scheiden tut weh – nicht nur Erwachsenen, sondern auch Kindern und Jugendlichen. Die Folgen von Trennungen beschäftigen zunehmend die Erziehungsberatungsstelle Tirschenreuth. Wie können Profis hier helfen?

Kinder leiden unter Streit und Trennung der Eltern sehr unterschiedlich. Eine Begleitung in Konflikten bietet die Erziehungsberatungsstelle in Tirschenreuth und Kemnath an. Symbolbild: Silvia Marks/dpa
Kinder leiden unter Streit und Trennung der Eltern sehr unterschiedlich. Eine Begleitung in Konflikten bietet die Erziehungsberatungsstelle in Tirschenreuth und Kemnath an.

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