Wohl der Kinder stets im Blick: Familienrichter Peter Neuner verabschiedet sich

Scheidungen und Streit ums Sorgerecht gehören zu seinem Tagwerk. Am Amtsgericht Tirschenreuth ist Peter Neuner seit 31 Jahren, zuletzt hauptsächlich in Familiensachen: ein weites Feld, wie der Richter zum Abschied aus dem Beruf schildert.

von Michaela Kraus

Der Polizeiteddy und Pinguin Bobo waren für Familienrichter Peter Neuner oft wertvolle Eisbrecher, um ins Gespräch mit Kindern zu kommen, wenn es um ihr Wohl und das Sorgerecht ging. Die beiden Stofftiere nimmt er Ende August mit in den Ruhestand.

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