Gespräche der wichtigste Bestandteil in der Trauerarbeit

Renate Buchfelder engagiert sich seit Jahren beim ambulanten Hospizdienst des Malteser Hilfsdienstes Weiden-Neustadt/WN und begleitet auch Trauernde. Wegen Corona läuft in diesem Jahr vieles nur übers Telefon.

von Stephanie Hladik

Auch in der Corona-Pandemie bieten die sozialen Einrichtungen und Verbände telefonische Hilfe an.

Bild: Gabi Schönberger

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