18.12.2020 - 18:25 Uhr
MantelOberpfalz

Eine Mutter aus Mantel erzählt: "In Coronazeiten bleibt wenig Platz für Trauer"

Manchmal ist es nur eine Whatsapp-Nachricht, die Eva Seifried wieder lächeln lässt. Die 64-Jährige aus Mantel verlor Anfang des Jahres ihre Tochter und kämpft seitdem mit guten und schlechten Tagen. Und dann kommt auch noch Corona.

Trauerbewältigung braucht Zeit. Oft dauert es viele Monate und manchmal sogar Jahre, mit dem Verlust eines geliebten Menschen zurecht zu kommen.
von Stephanie Hladik Kontakt Profil

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