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01.12.2023 - 11:15 Uhr
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Redeangst im Job: Schweigen ist nicht immer Gold

In vielen Jobs gehört es zum Alltag: Vorträge halten, in Meetings diskutieren, Projekte erklären. Doch was tun, wenn genau das zur Hürde wird - und jedes Wort zur Herausforderung?

Redeangst kann nicht nur in Jobs, in denen man oft Präsentationen halten muss, zum Karrierekiller werden. Symbolbild:  Zacharie Scheurer/dpa
Redeangst kann nicht nur in Jobs, in denen man oft Präsentationen halten muss, zum Karrierekiller werden.

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