21.09.2021 - 13:02 Uhr
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Der Selbstaufopferung in der häuslichen Pflege Grenzen setzen

Sie riskieren ihre Gesundheit, um für ihre Lieben da zu sein. Viele pflegende Angehörige vernachlässigen eigene Bedürfnisse - und brennen aus. Umso wichtiger ist, rechtzeitig Entlastung zu schaffen.

Wir schaffen das zusammen: Viele Menschen wollen ihre Angehörigen so lange wie möglich selbst pflegen. Symbolbild:  Uwe Umstätter/Westend61/dpa
Wir schaffen das zusammen: Viele Menschen wollen ihre Angehörigen so lange wie möglich selbst pflegen.

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