19.07.2021 - 18:29 Uhr
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Nicht sprachlos bleiben: Tipps für Schlagfertigkeit im Job

Die beste Antwort fällt Ihnen immer erst abends im Bett ein? Schade, denn Schlagfertigkeit kann helfen, im Beruf souveräner wahrgenommen zu werden. Die gute Nachricht: Diese Fähigkeit lässt sich trainieren.

Äh ...? Wem im Job selten eine schlagfertige Reaktion einfällt, der kann sich verschiedene Antwortmethoden antrainieren. Symbolbild:  Christin Klose/dpa
Äh ...? Wem im Job selten eine schlagfertige Reaktion einfällt, der kann sich verschiedene Antwortmethoden antrainieren.

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