#gehenstattessen: Leben neben der Norm - Alltag mit fast 300 Kilo

Wer kann sich wirklich in einen Menschen hineinversetzen, der massives Übergewicht hat? Wie dessen Leben aussieht? Welche Grenzen ihm gesetzt sind? Peter Müller erzählt davon in einer neuen Folge seiner Serie.

von Peter Müller

Einfach mal ein paar hundert Meter vom Auto an den Strand zu gehen und dort den Sturmwind genießen zu können, ist auch eines der kleinen Stücke Freiheit, die man erst wirklich zu schätzen weiß, wenn man es vorher nicht konnte. Hier an Ostern am Ostseestrand Solitüde bei Flensburg.

Bild: Dr. Carmen Lööck

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