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19.12.2024 - 16:11 Uhr
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Weihnachten im Hospiz: Wie Angehörige von todkranken Menschen die Adventszeit erleben

Ein letztes Mal Weihnachten feiern: Für die Gäste des Hospiz Sankt Felix in Neustadt/WN ist das Realität. Sie sterben bald. Zwei Angehörige erzählen, wie sie die eigentlich besinnliche Zeit durchstehen, und warum es auch gute Momente gibt.

Auch im Hospiz Sankt Felix in Neustadt/WN wird Weihnachten gefeiert. Ein Christbaum schmückt das Foyer. Bild: Gabi Schönberger
Auch im Hospiz Sankt Felix in Neustadt/WN wird Weihnachten gefeiert. Ein Christbaum schmückt das Foyer.

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