Frauennotruf und Frauenhaus Amberg: Schnelle Hilfe für Frauen und Mädchen in Not

Doris Müller engagiert sich ehrenamtlich für den Frauennotruf des Sozialdienstes katholischer Frauen Amberg. Mehrmals im Monat übernimmt sie über Nacht oder am Wochenende die Rufbereitschaft. Manches Erlebnis geht auch an die Nieren.

von Jennifer Battaglia

Doris Müller in ihrem Zuhause. Wenn sie Rufbereitschaft hat, liegt ihr Handy immer griffbereit.

Bild: J. Battaglia

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