Ärger nicht hinunterschlucken

Nein, niemand streitet gerne. Doch es funktioniert nicht, Ärger immer wieder hinunterzuschlucken und Unstimmigkeiten aus dem Weg zu gehen. Es ist wichtig, sich mit Konflikten gemeinsam auseinanderzusetzen, nur so können sie gelöst werden.

von Evi Wagner

Konflikte lösen macht glücklich.

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