Gutes Zuhören lohnt sich

"Reden ist Silber, Schweigen ist Gold", heißt es in einem Sprichwort. Doch Schweigen allein reicht nicht, um richtig zuzuhören. Es erfordert Aufmerksamkeit, Geduld und Empathie. Die gute Nachricht ist: Wirkliches Zuhören können wir lernen.

von Evi Wagner

Gutes Zuhören geht nicht einfach so nebenbei, dafür müssen wir uns Zeit nehmen.

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