Valentinstag – der "Tag der Liebe" und der Einsamkeit

Am Valentinstag ist nicht alles rosarot. Paare streiten sich, Menschen fühlen sich einsam. Auch die Telefonseelsorge hat am 14. Februar viel zu tun. Doch gibt es am "Tag der Liebe" mehr Anrufe als an den restlichen Tagen des Jahres?

von Lisa Sebald

Einsamkeit kann jeden treffen. Besonders an Valentinstag fühlen sich auch Menschen in einer Beziehung oft alleingelassen.

Symbolbild: Fabian Sommer/dpa

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