Nach den einsamen Corona-Toden: Die gemeinsame Trauer ist zurück

Die Corona-Pandemie war eine Zeit der einsamen Tode und schwierigen Trauergeschichten. Tage wie Allerseelen sollen das ändern. Wir haben mit zwei Experten aus der Oberpfalz gesprochen, für die das Thema Sterben Alltag ist.

von Sebastian Böhm

Allerheiligen und Allerseelen sind katholische christliche Feste, an dem aller Heiligen und aller Verstorbenen gedacht wird.

Symbolbild: Angelika Warmuth

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