Weiden in der Oberpfalz
31.12.2021 - 14:02 Uhr
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Plötzlich kein Kontakt mehr zum Enkelkind: Was können „verstoßene Großeltern“ tun?

Auf den Spielplatz gehen oder bei Oma übernachten – Für Großeltern und Enkel sind das wertvolle Momente. Wird der Kontakt verboten, schmerzt es umso mehr. Eine geplante Selbsthilfegruppe in Weiden will „verstoßene Großeltern“ auffangen.

Enkelkinder sind für viele Großeltern das größte Glück. Wird der Kontakt untersagt, leiden Oma und Opa. Aber auch den Kindern wird damit ein Familienmitglied genommen.

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