Oberpfalz
29.08.2020 - 09:10 Uhr
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Wenn Jugendliche den Vater verlieren: Drei Wege durch die Trauer

Viel zu früh haben drei junge Oberpfälzerinnen ihre Väter verloren. Mit Oberpfalz-Medien teilen sie ihre Gefühle: Wie erging es ihnen direkt nach dem Verlust? Und wie geht es ihnen heute? Mit ihren Geschichten wollen sie auch Mut machen.

Der Weg durch die Trauer ist manchmal steinig und schwer: Drei junge Oberpfälzerinnen erzählen wie es ihnen nach dem Tod von ihrem Vater erging. Symbolbild: Patrick Daxenbichler/stock.adobe.com
Der Weg durch die Trauer ist manchmal steinig und schwer: Drei junge Oberpfälzerinnen erzählen wie es ihnen nach dem Tod von ihrem Vater erging.

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