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18.07.2022 - 12:45 Uhr
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Interview: Therapeut Sebastian Sonntag über Trauer bei Erwachsenen

Der Tod eines geliebten Menschen trifft uns oft unerwartet und mitten im Leben. Eines ist beim Verlust eines geliebten, uns nahestehenden Menschen sicher: Uns wird bewusst, dass nichts auf der Welt von Dauer ist.

Der Verlust eines geliebten Menschen ist schwer zu verarbeiten. Kaum jemand schafft das ganz allein.

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