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22.03.2021 - 09:21 Uhr
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Spotted: Virtuelles Flirten mit "Schatzsuch-Charme"

Es ist der Nervenkitzel, der Wunsch, „begehrt zu werden“, und der Spaß, andere wiederzuerkennen. Das Phänomen „Spotted“ boomt bei Facebook. Der besondere Reiz: Sehen und gesehen werden. Das Erfolgsgeheimnis: Es könnte jeden treffen.

Das Phänomen "Spotted" boomt bei Facebook - auch in der Oberpfalz. Bild: Grafik Redaktion Magazine
Das Phänomen "Spotted" boomt bei Facebook - auch in der Oberpfalz.

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Die Suche nach der/dem Richtigen ist oft nicht leicht. "Spotted" soll dabei helfen. Bild: Adobe.Stock
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