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Warum Paare ganzjährig Valentinstag feiern müssen, um glücklich zu sein

Am Valentinstag strömen die Verliebten in die Läden, um Blumen und Pralinen zu kaufen. Doch reicht ein Geschenk aus, um Beziehungen frisch zu halten? Zwei Sexualtherapeutinnen erklären, worauf es wirklich ankommt.

Am 14. Februar feiern Liebende den Valentinstag. Das Brauchtum des Tages geht auf das Fest des Heiligen Valentin (Valentin von Terni) zurück. Symbolbild: Patrick Pleul/dpa
Am 14. Februar feiern Liebende den Valentinstag. Das Brauchtum des Tages geht auf das Fest des Heiligen Valentin (Valentin von Terni) zurück.

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