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Wir neigen dazu, uns Stress zu machen und zu dramatisieren. Meistens erkennen wir erst im Nachhinein, dass das unnötig war. Bleiben Sie gelassen, rät die OWZ-Glücksexpertin.

von Evi Wagner

Gelassenheit hilft oft weiter.

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