Schluss mit dem Groll

Vergeben bedeutet mehr, als nur "Ich verzeihe dir" zu sagen. Wenn wir jemandem wirklich vergeben, schließen wir mit unserem Ego Frieden und fühlen uns vollkommen ausgeglichen. Deswegen ist es wichtig, uns von unserer Wut zu befreien.

von Evi Wagner

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