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Schöne, ungewisse Zukunft: Neustart mit Baby

Für eine unserer jungen Kolleginnen hält 2021 ein ganz besonderes Glück bereit und eine neue, ungewisse Zukunft. Warum das so ist, und warum es manche Pläne Wert sind, über den Haufen geworfen zu werden, erzählt sie uns am besten selbst.

Mit dem ersten Kind verändert sich so einiges. Die verschiedensten Gedanken und Gefühle kreisen ständig im Kopf herum und die Zukunft ist plötzlich eine andere.

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