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30.12.2020 - 15:13 Uhr
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So gelingt der Neustart: Tipps von Psychologin Evelyn Gäbler

Ein Neustart ist nicht einfach – trotz aller guten Vorsätze und aller glücklichen Fügungen. Diplom-Psychologin Evelyn Gäbler erklärt in unserem Interview, mit welchen Dingen man rechnen muss, wenn Veränderungen im Leben anstehen.

Diplom-Psychologin Evelyn Gäbler spricht mit Oberpfalz-Medien über die körperlich, geistigen und seelischen Herausforderungen des Neustarts. Bild: lue
Diplom-Psychologin Evelyn Gäbler spricht mit Oberpfalz-Medien über die körperlich, geistigen und seelischen Herausforderungen des Neustarts.

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