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26.12.2022 - 09:54 Uhr
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Experten über Einsamkeit im Alter: Betroffene und Angehörige müssen miteinander sprechen

Viele ältere Menschen sind einsam. Dabei kann es auch die treffen, deren Familien sich über alle Maße kümmern. Häufig sind Missverständnisse in der Kommunikation schuld. Zwei Experten berichten aus ihrer Erfahrung.

Einsamkeit im Alter kann jeden Menschen treffen. Dabei müssen die Betroffenen noch nicht einmal alleine sein. Zwei Experten erklären, woran das liegt und was man dagegen tun kann. Symbolbild: Klaus-Dietmar Gabbert/dpa
Einsamkeit im Alter kann jeden Menschen treffen. Dabei müssen die Betroffenen noch nicht einmal alleine sein. Zwei Experten erklären, woran das liegt und was man dagegen tun kann.

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