Ohne Worte

Die Körpersprache entscheidet nicht nur, wie wir von anderen wahrgenommen werden. Sie kann auch die eigenen Empfindungen beeinflussen. "Programmieren" Sie sich auf glücklich, meint die OWZ-Glücksexpertin.

von Evi Wagner

Nonverbale Kommunikation scheint auf der ganzen Welt zu funktionieren.

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