Schluss mit dem Optimierungswahn

Selbst dort, wo es um Entspannung, Muße oder Geborgenheit gehen sollte, hat sich der Leistungsgedanke breitgemacht. Machen Sie mal wieder Dinge einfach nur zum Spaß, rät die OWZ-Glücksexpertin.

von Evi Wagner

Entspannung statt Unbehagen.

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