Endlich positiv denken

Spanisch, Klavierspielen oder Yoga - was wollen Sie schon lange lernen? Versuchen Sie es doch mal mit Optimismus, rät die OWZ-Glücksexpertin. Und stoßen Sie ruhig öfter mit einem halbvollen statt mit einem halbleeren Glas an.

von Evi Wagner

Die gute Nachricht ist: Optimismus kann man lernen.

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