13.02.2020 - 14:45 Uhr
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Zwischenzeugnis: Bei schlechten Noten erstmal Ruhe bewahren

Eine Fünf in Mathe, eine Vier in Chemie und in Englisch war die letzte Schulaufgabe auch nicht so prickelnd. Die Schulnoten und auch die Stimmung der Eltern sehen dann nicht mehr rosig aus. Doch wie geht man mit schlechten Noten richtig um?

Oh je! Dieses Zwischenzeugnis scheint wohl nicht so gut ausgefallen zu sein. Für Eltern ist es in derartigen Fallen wichtig, ruhig zu bleiben.
von Michelle BalzerProfil

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